Your Type

I recently heard this song and I love it. The first line is "Can I save you from you?"

How many times have you fallen for the same type of person in hopes that you could make them better. "Save" them from themselves. Many a relationship has been doomed by that sentiment. You can't make a person over into someone else. It is far easier to just look for the person you want in the first place.

I'll be the first to admit that I have a set TYPE. One of these days I'll smarten up and find a new TYPE. In the meantime I'm with Jamie Foxx/Drake- (I always) Fall For Your Type

Self Service

I know as a NEW modern woman I am in control of my orgasms and sensuality. I know that if I want one I am well within my rights to take matters into my own hands as it were and enjoy. :( The only problem is I miss the ride. It simply isn't fun to tend to my own O. Maybe I need to work on my technique but it isn't quite so amazing either.

I wonder how many others feel the same? I won't say I haven't considered just finding a warm body to aid me in this but men can not walk away as easily as they say they can.(They can't.)

Plus I don't want to be a WHORE. Who else is feeling me?

Next time we talk about what makes a whore.



I got this picture here.

Who loses more?

In recent times I have noticed a trend. When a two people become a couple the women tend to be the ones giving something up. I've seen girls lose friends, jobs and scholarships over a man. Yet I can not recall a single instance where I've known a man to even lose sleep over a woman. Ain't that bitch?

Why do you think that is?
Why does it keep happening?
Is it worth it to gain some one in your life who causes you to lose out in other places?

The Raw Deal

The Raw Deal is just what it sounds like. I'm going to be giving it to you all kinds of ways. Rough, slow, hard or slick. Always RAW. Advice, observations, social concerns. You name it, I'm talking about it!